at mile 4, i noticed the now-familiar pain start to creep up from the inside of my ankle on my left leg. steve, who had been checking on me every quarter-mile or so, simply said, “shit,” when i told him (he’s a poet). i tried to slow down. i tried to walk for a bit. but the pain intensified and, by mile 5.5 i had to stop. that was it. i wasn’t going to be finishing this half marathon today. this wasn’t a surprise. i had been limping through the streets of manhattan for the entire week after my last 5k and leading up to this event. i had a feeling that i would end up here (well, truth be told, i wasn’t sure i would end up here per se—not by the port-a-johns watching runners i had passed minutes before amble past me with looks of pity. but, in general). i knew i wouldn’t finish.
my injury isn’t severe. it isn’t structural. my injury is caused by poor mechanics and over-usage. again, none of this is surprising. either way, i’m not used to not finishing. that’s not what i do. i don’t quit. i don’t not finish.
but, last sunday, that is exactly what happened.
a very wise woman told me quite bluntly recently that i need to slow down. she’d noticed how i was constantly running from one place to the next, from one commitment to another, from one project to ten others. “what is it that you’re avoiding?” that was her question. her advice: slow down. give yourself time and space. sometimes, do nothing.
what this friend was seeing is not only a fundamental truth in my life on the whole, but also some pretty keen insight into the underlying issues of my work as an artist. all this running, all this jumping from one idea to the next, all of this going is not sustainable. at some point, your legs give out. at some point, your body won’t let you continue even if your mind is already visualizing the finish line. and, at some point, your creativity will short-circuit and leave you on the sidelines watching the rest of the runners float on by while you await rescue.
i’m going to take this sage advice and try to slow down. my physical therapist asked me this week when my next race would be. the competitive brain residing in my skull responded, “you tell me. when can i run again?” but, i’m realizing now that i’m already in the middle of another marathon. My Black Cloud. my bunny. this goal. this is the finish line on which i need to focus.
and so here i sit, looking across the cabin at my running shoes in the corner, thinking about an upcoming photo shoot at work, worrying about the myriad emotions floating like ghosts above my head, feeling guilty that there is still an hour of light left in the day and my puppies are not in the woods, wondering how the four loads of laundry sitting up in my room are going to end up folded. here i sit. and here i’m going to remain sitting. and, at least for tonight, i’m just going to draw.